Dear Folks,
It is no wonder that the characters in the Bible are always telling us their dreams. The authors of the old and new testaments understood dreams as an expression of God, vignettes which picture the landscape of the Holy, where the dreamer encounters her fuller self. “Our dreams are the voice of the psychic center within us,” writes Episcopal priest and Jungian analyst John Sanford in his book, Dreams: God’s Forgotten Language. Here is a part of you, dreams tell us, perhaps unknown or forgotten, that longs to reconnect to your waking reality. Dreams invite integration and intend our wellbeing, and this movement toward wholeness is good for both the individual dreamer and the collective. In fact, Sanford writes, integrating the opposites of the divided self is the “restoration of the image of God.”
Carl Jung observed that dreams are not obscure at all; rather, dreams “are clear expressions of our very own nature that mean exactly what they show”. The difficulty is that dreams speak a symbolic language, and to understand them we must learn their symbolism. Our unconscious has things to tell us, and these narrative gifts from the dream maker keep asking to be heard or seen and known.
Consider Sanford’s work with the shadow, the archetypal “enemy” or opposite that we are likely to dismiss, discredit, or devalue. This “shadow is in the service of God,” Sanford writes, “and to wrestle with this other one in us is also to wrestle with God.” As was the case for Jacob who wrestled through the night with an “angel,” God assails us in life as our shadow, “seeming to be an adversary, but desiring our fundamental change.” The shadow is as old as humanity, frequently appearing in myths and literature, as well in today’s headlines. Am I the only one who feels like he’s wrestling a lot these days?!
And here’s the gift of wrestling, of integrating the opposites of the divided self: the shadow “feared and rejected, becomes evil. (But) recognized and accepted it plays a part in the total person.” There is a unity that combines the ego and the shadow, and it is exactly this unity we must find if the world or the individual is to escape disaster. Indeed, “until we have peace with this inner adversary, peace with our neighbor will be impossible, since we will always blame them for what is in us.” Tough sledding, but wisdom figures have told us for centuries that what we most hate in someone else is connected to some loathing or fear within us. Loving both the neighbor and the self is essential to our individual healing and the world’s.
The unconscious, both personal and collective, is not just a basement repository for what we have rejected and feared. It is a living reality, which when working with consciousness, engenders wellbeing. Importantly, forgiveness is “a work of the soul,” an inner experience that must be gone through, and the “complete” person works toward a harmonious relationship between all of his opposite tendencies. More than anything else, Sanford writes, “our dreams are concerned with this problem of opposites, and its resolution in a newer and higher synthesis.” Integration is forgiveness work; forgiveness leads to integration.
Sanford concludes, “One glance at our world tells us that we are not whole, and one look into the unconscious depth of almost any one of us shows that the struggle of opposites continues.” Yet our dreams, in strange and wonderful ways, “reflect the life process at work” which seeks to restore the image of God within us, beyond us, and between us.
I’m in. God is light and darkness, dying and rising, enemy/stranger/neighbor/lover/friend.
Love,
David
